My car is now completely loaded and ready to go. Now that I've passed this last major hurdle, the reality of things is starting to set in. I've been thinking a little today about the things I will miss about Michigan. These are in no particular order, just as I think of them.
This may be hard for some of you Floridians to understand, but I will miss the weather in Michigan sometimes. Don't get me wrong, there have been many times in these last few really cold weeks that I have complained and longed to be in Florida. Snow in April I will not miss. But I do really enjoy the beauty of snow (during its designated time of year) and will miss it at times. And I know there will be times this summer when I am dying of heat that I will wish for the cooler temperatures in Michigan. It can get really hot in Michigan, but it's not as prolonged as it is in Florida. I will also miss all the beautiful scenery, the leaves changing, the fresh apple cider, etc.
I will miss the Parks, the family that I have stayed with in Berrien. They have become family for me and I have enjoyed the time with them. I've never lived with a little sister before, and it has been nice. It has also had many practical benefits as well as it has allowed me to save money and kept me from buying a bed, furniture, etc. which I likely would have if I had gotten an apartment. Not having those extra things, and not being locked into the commitment of a lease, has allowed me to easily move back to Florida now. It was truly a God-thing.
I've also enjoyed being able to see my family more. My parents live 3 hours away and I have been able to see them frequently and was able to be there during very difficult times. I also have a brother and sister-in-law that live in Berrien that I have seen more. I hadn't spent much time with them before, and it's been really nice to get to know them.
I also have a great job here at the copying facility on campus. My boss is really great and that makes a huge difference. I've had the flexibility to work extra when needed to make up for time off and even to take a flight to Florida. The security and flexibility is definitely something I will miss, especially in my current struggle to find a job.
Before you get too concerned (or too excited, depending on your hopes), these are not second thoughts. I am still INCREDIBLY looking forward to many things about being back in Florida. These things that I will miss about Michigan in no way change or detract from my excitement about moving. But I do know that with any move or any change, there is some grief. And I feel that it is important and healthy to recognize these things.
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one of my favorite movies is sweet home alabama, and though it's a cheesy chick flick, it has a great line: "you can have both roots and wings." like you, i miss the seasons and my family in illinois, but the one i love is in florida, and this state has its own unique beauty that i would miss deeply if i ever left. i treasure my midwest roots, and i fly in florida. looking forward to having you back. :)
Very well put. That's exactly right. I'm looking forward to being back. 1 more day!!!!! As soon as I get my stuff in the car, I'm outta here.
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